How to Choose a Wedding Florist in Southern California (And Actually Feel Good About It)

Because you're not just picking pretty flowers — you're picking a partner for your big day.

Southern California is packed with insanely talented wedding florists — which is amazing… until you realize you're now stuck trying to pick just one. And suddenly, you're scrolling through Instagram at 1 a.m., staring at hundreds of dreamy arrangements wondering, "How am I supposed to know who's right for me?!"

You’re not alone. So many couples feel overwhelmed when it comes to choosing their florist — especially in a saturated market like SoCal, where every designer seems like a creative genius with a gallery full of floral eye candy.

This quick guide is here to help you cut through the pretty noise and actually figure out what matters. Whether you’re just getting started or knee-deep in Pinterest boards, this post will walk you through the key things to look for in a wedding florist — and why making the right choice can totally change your planning experience.

(And yes, if by the end you’re thinking, “Wait...I think I’ve found my florist,” then hey, let’s talk.)

Long Beach Museum of Art. Photo by Dave Richards Photography

1. Look Beyond the Pretty Pictures

Let’s be real: every florist in SoCal has stunning photos. That’s kind of the baseline here. But not all floral portfolios are created equal — and not all of them tell the whole story.

Look for consistency across real weddings, not just styled shoots or one-off moments. Can they handle large-scale installations? Have they worked with varied venues and timelines? Do their designs feel personal or do they all look the same?

Flowers by Melis Insight: My portfolio is made up of a mix of gorgeous styled shoots as well as real clients, real moments, and real love stories. From beachfront vows to ballroom soirées, I focus on making sure each event feels like you, not just another Pinterest dupe.

Old Ranch Country Club, Seal Beach. Photo by: Indigo West

2. Prioritize Communication and Vibe

Choosing a florist isn’t just about liking their work — it’s about feeling heard. Can you easily reach them? Do they ask the right questions? Are they as excited about your vision as you are?

You deserve a florist who doesn’t just “do flowers,” but actually gets you — your style, your story, your vibe. Communication is everything.

Client Tip: Pay attention to how you feel after your first call or email exchange. That gut instinct? Trust it.

Flowers by Melis Insight: I’m obsessed with communication. I pride myself on being quick to reply, transparent with pricing, and genuinely excited about every couple I work with. (Like, I still get teary over first looks — it’s who I am.)

3. Understand What “Full-Service” Actually Means

Spoiler: not all wedding florists offer the same thing. Some just deliver bouquets and bounce. Others help you design your entire floral experience — from ceremony to reception to repurposing pieces throughout the day.

Make sure to ask what’s included: Setup? Breakdown? Rentals? Day-of delivery? Consultation walkthroughs?

Flowers by Melis Insight: I’m a full-service floral designer, which means I handle everything so you don’t have to. You’ll get expert guidance from our first call all the way to the final petal placed on your sweetheart table.

4. Don’t Skip the Budget Conversation

Talking numbers can feel awkward, but it shouldn’t. A great florist will help you understand what’s possible at your price point, and won’t shame you for having a budget.

A seasoned designer will guide you on where to make impact (hi, ceremony!) and where to simplify if needed, without sacrificing your vision.

Flowers by Melis Insight: I don’t believe in up-sells that don’t make sense. I offer a la carte options, custom proposals, and full-service wedding minimums starting at $3,000 — always with transparency and options that feel right for you.

Paul de Leon, Paul D Photo

5. Trust Your Gut (and Their Experience)

You’re hiring a creative partner, but also a logistics pro. Flowers wilt fast if they’re handled wrong. Installations fall apart if they’re not secured correctly. You need someone who’s artistic and a little type-A about the details.

Check their experience. Ask about training. Read reviews. Then trust your gut.

Flowers by Melis Insight: With years of experience and formal training from the Judith Blacklock School in London, I bring a unique blend of creativity, professionalism, and calm energy to every wedding I design.

Photo by Dave Richards Photography

Final Thoughts:

At the end of the day, your wedding florist should make you feel excited, supported, and 100% confident that your vision is in good hands. There are tons of amazing florists in Southern California — but the one that’s right for you will feel like a natural fit.

If you’re nodding along right now and want to know if we’re a match — I’d love to hear from you.

Heritage Farm, Long Beach. Photo by Maria Davis Photography

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Let’s schedule a quick consultation call and chat about your wedding dreams. No pressure, no fluff — just honest guidance, expert help, and some seriously beautiful blooms.

Reach out to Flowers by Melis here to check your date and get started!

SmogShoppe, Los Angeles. Photo by: SYMBOLL PHOTOGRAPHY

FAQ: Wedding Florist Questions You Were Totally Going to Google Later

Q: When should I book my wedding florist?
A: Ideally, 6–12 months before your wedding. For full-service florals, the sooner the better — especially during peak SoCal wedding season (spring/fall).

Q: Do you offer mock-ups?
A: Yes! Mock-up centerpiece sessions start at $250 and are a great way to preview your design direction, especially if you’re visual and want that extra peace of mind.

Q: What areas do you serve?
A: I’m based in Long Beach but serve all of Southern California — from Los Angeles to Orange County to wine country and beyond.

Q: Do you offer a la carte options?
A: Absolutely! I have a la carte services for couples who want gorgeous flowers without the full-service experience — perfect for elopements or budget-conscious weddings.

Q: What’s your floral style?
A: My style is whimsical, unique, and full of personality — a mix of creative flair and bold romance. I love designing florals that feel magical, meaningful, and totally custom to each couple.

Q: Do you work with specific venues or planners?
A: Yes! I love collaborating with planners and venues across SoCal. If you’re already working with someone, I’m happy to integrate seamlessly into your vendor team.

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